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Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

13.06.2025 01:38

Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

Just because someone says that they love you, you have no obligation or requirement to love them. You can not make yourself love someone, it is there or it is not.

I told her that I could not keep going out with her knowing she loved me but I did not love her. To do so would be cruel. I know she was broken hearted but I could not pretend to love her just to have someone to have sex with. She was really good in bed but there is so much more to a relationship

She said she loved me but I did not love her and knew I could never love her. She was not a bad person, just not the right person.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?